He thinks he’s doing everything right. But you’re carrying the emotional weight of both of you. You’re not needy. You’re not asking for too much. You’re asking for the love he never saw — and now doesn’t know how to give. If this hit too hard, you’re not alone. Which part felt the most real for you? #MotherWound #FatherWound #EmotionalUnavailability #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentWounds #SoftLove #GenerationalHealing #WomenWhoFeelTooMuch
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He watched his dad starve his mom emotionally and now he's doing the same to you He thinks showing paying bills fixing stuff his love, but the truth is he never saw what emotional safety looks Now when you ask for connection, he thinks you're criticized every time you ask for more more softness more presence More care. He shuts down. He gets defensive. He accuses you of being ungrateful You're just starving for emotional intimacy. He stuck in survival and You're not crazy for wanting more You're done surviving on crumbs. You want love that feels safe mutual logical not mechanical His unhealed past is bleeding all over you He learned love was doing not he learned women carry the emotional While men just show up and expect to be praised if he doesn't heal You'll keep hurting unless he's willing to unlearn those wounds to stop repeating what he saw You'll keep loving a man who only know how to take from you Not poor and cheap You can't fix that for him
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