He hurts you… then turns around and acts like YOU’RE the problem. That’s not confusion. That’s control. If you’ve ever been made the villain just for reacting… say “villain” in the comments. Stay here. I’m Mama Tones. ⸻ #toxicrelationship #relationshipadvice #marriageproblems #emotionalabuse #narcissist
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- Men who hate their wives love playing the victim. If you feel like you're always the problem in your relationship, no matter what he does, it somehow ends up being your fault. This is why. Men who resent their wives, they love playing the victim. He hurts you, then blames you for reacting. He disrespects you, then calls you dramatic. He crosses the line, then says, "You're too sensitive." It's never big enough to point to. Know what big moment, just constant training things, every day, until one day, you don't even recognize yourself anymore. But outside the house, he's the nice guy, the funny guy, the helpful guy. Everybody loves him. Your husband is amazing. Yeah, because they don't live with him. You do. Attitude, the silence, the tension you feel in your chest. And the second you react, now you're the problem. Now you're crazy. Now you're too much. Stay here. I'm Mama Tones. Follow for more.
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