I would leave my husband, and so should you, if he did these 6 things. Some things are not marriage problems. They are warnings. And if your body already knows what I’m talking about, stop calling it loyalty. Free guide is in my bio because you need a plan, not another breakdown. If you’re done making excuses for him, comment DONE. #toxicrelationship #mamatones #womenover40 #toxicmarriage

I would leave my husband and so should you, if he did any of these five things. Not to be dramatic, because some things are not marriage problems, they are warnings. One, if he uses fear to control you, blocks the door, snatches your phone, takes your keys away, punches walls, drives crazy with you in the car. That's not a temper, that's a big warning. Two, if he gets too close to another woman, deleted messages from his phone, secret smiles, she's just a friend, that's nonsense. No way, I'm not competing for a man I've already married. Three, if you have to beg him to spend time with you, beg for dinner, beg for conversation, beg to feel chosen, a marriage of two should not make you feel single. Four, if lying becomes normal, checking phones, matching stories, replaying conversations, I did not get married to become an investigator in my house. Five, he humiliates you in public. The jokes are really insults, the irls correcting you like a child, putting you back in your place after you were happy in public. That is no joke, that is contempt. Stay here, I'm Mama Tones, I help women in toxic marriages, hear the truth, they've been talked out of trusting. If you're living this right now, go to my bio for a free guide to walk you through your exit plan, documents, money, support, and what else to gather to go. You don't need another breakdown, you need a plan. If you're done begging a grown man to treat you like his wife, are you ready to choose yourself? Comment down in the comments below. Follow for more, Betty.