Signs a Man Is Insecure. #psychology #SelfImprovement #datingadvice

The next one is overly focused on status, money, or appearance as a form of proof of worth. There's nothing wrong with wanting your status to be a certain way, earning a financial portfolio, or something you're proud of, that's fine, or your appearance. But doing that to prove your worth, it means that you initially don't feel that you have worth. There are a lot of people who, especially if they felt like they didn't get this when they were young, they felt like they were unattractive, or maybe they were bullied, or they grew up in a state of low finance or poverty, or they have low status from their perception. Sometimes they want to overcompensate for that, and that is a sign of insecurity because they felt insecure when they were young about that. The next one is blaming others for his loneliness, rejection, or failures. Any gender can do this, but we're saving this a little bit more common with men nowadays, or at least outwardly so. A lot of men who are insecure, they may actually blame others for their loneliness, rejection, or failures. Even though it's not necessarily anyone's fault, it could just be a variety of reasons, but it's sometimes hard for these men to take some look at themselves and think that maybe there's something they could adjust for whatever reason. Maybe they could be more social, maybe they could be a little bit more nicer, maybe they could be less negative towards the opposite sex, or their friends, or whoever, because this is not just them doing it towards a lady. Some of these men might do it towards their friends, or they may push people away, or they may blame others for whatever reason, and that's something that comes with insecurity typically. The next one is mocking others' emotions. They're body or intelligence, and this is not just like I had mentioned. They're not just doing this to a lady. They could do this to another man, where a man... This was one that came up recently in one of my sessions, and obviously I'm not specifically saying exactly what it is. I'm going to give a version of it, but in the area I'm in, there's a lot of military folks, and in the military, there's a very, at least in this area, even like art is considered feminine, which I didn't know that before, but like art, music, interior decorating, these are things that some men, not music, but like wanting to decorate your room like a certain way apparently is feminine to some men in this perspective. And so they might mock another man simply because he wants... I don't know, his bedsheets to match him to have a more darker tone in his room. That I think is like normal, but some men in that category might make fun of another man for that, but that's what I mean by mocking others for their emotions, their bodies, their intelligence, their choices. That could be a significant sign, depending on how extreme it is, that this man, the one mocking, is insecure about his own masculinity, because another person might feel like that's inspirational. Let me do that, or just leave it alone, right? Everybody's different. And the next one, and the last one, is taking everything personally. If somebody takes every single thing personally, this is, of course, it's abnormal and unhealthy, mentally, but it also the sign of insecurity. Anything that somebody says, a lot of it, at least a some portion of it, is based on themself. It doesn't always have to do with you, but even if a person is just... I don't know, they're tired. They're not as expressive or animated as they typically are. Someone might take that personally and think you don't like them or you're mean or you're hurtful, and that would be a sign of insecurity. If, for whatever reason, it is geared towards you, having a conversation or asking about it might be more beneficial than immediately jumping to the conclusion that it is, in fact, personal. So these are some of the signs that a man is insecure. I hope this video is helpful to somebody. Please like, subscribe. I'll see you in the next one.