Someone can want you… and still let you go. Wanting = feeling. Keeping = decision. One fades under pressure. One shows up stronger. Don’t confuse intensity with commitment. Comment “UpSpiral” if this hit. #relationships #dating #selfworth #mindset #Love
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There's a difference between someone who wants you, and someone who will do what it takes to keep you. A lot of people want you, wanting is easy. They want your energy, your attention, how you make them feel, that parts easy. It's convenience, sometimes it's chemistry, but keeping you, that's a decision. That's showing up anyway, even when it's not convenient. That's choosing you when it's not always easy. It's doing the small things that nobody claps for. Wanting is a feeling, keeping is a decision. One fades the moment it gets uncomfortable, the other gets stronger because of it. So don't confuse intensity with commitment, because someone can want you badly and still let you go easily. But when someone has decided to do what it takes to keep you and letting go isn't one of the choices. And that's real love. Follow me and comment the word "upspiral" and I'll send you some more information about my unique manifestation program. In that program, we explore with you the many ways that relationships are foundational for well-being, starting with the relationship you have with yourself. Follow me and comment the word "upspiral." Vibrant beings, have a great day!
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