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My mother-in-law put nuts in the food at my wedding, even though she knows I'm allergic. Story time. So I have a severe not allergy, not like a cutesy little mild one. No, no, no, and this is not new information. On my wedding day, my mother-in-law birthed insisted on making one special dish. She wanted to do this herself and everything else was handled by the caterer. So at the reception, of course, I had a couple of bites at the dish she made, and within minutes, I could feel my throat tightening up. It was not good. My lips were tingling, my chest was tight, and I thought, oh, maybe I've just got a bit of overwhelm about the big day. Then it just kept getting worse. I had to leave my own wedding to go and sit in a bathroom to calm myself down whilst our bride's been yanked me with an happy pen. Later on, I found out that Bertha had added a little bit of crushed nut into the dinner for some flavor. No, I've heard of her does a really, really nice, flavorful food-birth at jail. And my husband obviously came to check on me, so he went to sleep to his mom, and he said that she said that she just forgot. And she tried to blow it off and act like it wasn't a big deal because it was only a couple of nuts. So because of her sprinklage of nuts, I mispart my wedding, part of my photos, I had to calm down for a really, really long time, and instead of, of course, feeling overjoyed, I was fucking terrified. And being completely honest, what hurts the most in all of this is like the lack of accountability. She has just been so defensive this entire time, and I keep replaying the situation I might have because I can't be in so many worse outcomes. I don't know, I don't know if it actually was carelessness or if she genuinely didn't think she was doing anything wrong. I obviously haven't told many people about this situation, but it has been sitting head be on my chest. Now I genuinely feel unsafe being around my mother-in-law. Like, how do I be forward from this? Just pre-warning on, that's what a lot of this on, but it's my new favorite way to use it. Yeah, so I don't know how I'm supposed to be able to go around for dinner at her house now, go out for meals. I'm just so scared the entire time that she might poison me. And I never ever had any inkling before that there was an issue between us. It does so. Okay, so what would you do in this situation?